Have you ever found yourself at the end of a book you’ve just finished wondering, what did I just read? (And not in a Gone Girl "what the hell just happened"way.) If you have trouble remembering the finer points of your recent reads, don’t stress, because you’re not alone, and there are plenty of ways to improve your reading retention.
An interesting video talking about Straight Actors playing Gay characters and vice versa.
It is important to remember, you are what you choose to be. You are as you see yourself. As long as you do not impose yourself or your beliefs upon others. No one gets to decide who you are, how you identify, how you live your life. Be the you, you know that you are.